Yahoo – AFP,
Tom BARFIELD, 29 September 2017
Some 94,000 same sex couples in Germany can marry after a June vote which gave participants cause to celebrate at Berlin's annual gay pride parade weeks later |
Germany's
first gay couples to be married will tie the knot Sunday, after decades of
struggle that campaigners say still has ground to make up.
Couples
will convert existing civil partnerships or set the seal on their relationships
for the first time in Berlin, while others exchange rings in Hanover, Hamburg
and other cities.
Local
authorities rushed to get weddings underway as soon as possible, after
lawmakers voted on June 30 to give Germany's roughly 94,000 same-sex couples
the right to marry.
But German
bureaucracy being what it is, government software will be unable to officially
record two men or two women as married until next year -- meaning some online
paperwork will still register them as "husband" and "wife".
"Finally
our country is joining the rest of Europe!" said Joerg Steinert, head of
gay and lesbian rights organisation LSVD in Berlin and Brandenburg state.
The
Netherlands was the first country to legalise gay marriage in 2000, followed
piecemeal by 14 European neighbours like Spain, Sweden, Britain and France.
But Germany
made do with a 2001 civil partnership law, extended over the years to remove
more and more gaps between gay and straight couples' rights.
That was
"a first breach in the institution," Steinert said, paving the way
for Sunday's "very symbolic step."
"We
won't be a second-class couple any longer," Bode Mende, who with partner
Karl Kreil will form the first couple to marry in Berlin, told newspaper Neues
Deutschland Thursday.
Mende and
Kreil, together since 1979, have for years campaigned for equal marriage
rights.
The law now
reads "marriage binds two people of different sexes or the same sex for
life".
By
extending existing law to same-sex pairs, they automatically gain the same tax
advantages and adoption rights as heterosexual families, avoiding the endless
back-and-forth in some nations over adoption.
Along with
the Greens party, the LSVD began its battle for equal marriage rights around
the year 1990.
By 2017,
same-sex relationships have become so normalised that polls show around 75
percent of Germans are in favour of gay marriage.
Unlike in
France, there were no rallies of hundreds of thousands against the law.
"Lots
of people were amazed by the end that it hadn't already happened, asking
themselves, 'surely we have that already?'" said MP Johannes Kahrs, gay
and lesbian affairs commissioner for the SPD -- who himself will act as witness
in a close friend's wedding Sunday.
'Thanks
for nothing!'
Lawmaker
Kahrs enjoyed a flash of fame in June, when he laid into the snap decision by
Chancellor Angela Merkel allowing conservative MPs to follow their conscience
on a gay marriage vote -- the trigger for the rush to pass a bill.
"Thank
you for nothing, Frau Merkel!" he stormed, pounding the lectern in the
Bundestag (lower house of parliament) with rage.
Merkel
explained her thinking changed after a "memorable experience" when
she met a lesbian couple who lovingly care for eight foster children in her
Baltic coast constituency.
Her
surprise shift in position -- after 12 years of blockade by her Christian
Democrats and their Bavarian allies -- was seen by some as a cynical ploy to
rob her challengers of a popular cause ahead of September's election.
The
chancellor herself voted against the bill, arguing that the German constitution
still defines marriage as "the union of a man and a woman".
"I
still think it was indecent to delay for so many years, and the fact that she
voted no," Kahrs told AFP.
Even now,
the conservative Bavarian government has put experts to work investigating a
constitutional challenge against the law.
But Kahrs
is confident that a case will never be brought -- or, if it were, that judges
would uphold gay marriage.
Long way
to go
June was a
bumper month for gay rights in Germany, as MPs also voted to quash the
convictions of thousands of men convicted under a Nazi-era law against same-sex
relationships which had remained on the statute book until 1994.
But there
are still an array of issues familiar across western democracies, like blood
donation or access to reproductive medicine, where homosexuals can be treated
differently.
And the
constitution -- which forbids discrimination based on sex, parentage, race,
language, homeland and origin, faith, religious or political opinions or
disability -- must be extended to protect against discrimination over gender or
sexual orientation, Kahrs insisted.
"These
are all things that we'll tackle bit by bit," the MP said.
"The
important thing is that we've pushed through the opening of marriage, and
that's the signal everyone needed."