Ursula
Halligan, political editor of commercial channel TV3, writes powerful column in
Irish Times about torment of being secretly gay in Ireland
The Guardian, Lisa O'Carroll, Friday 15 May 2015
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| Ursula Halligan: ‘Because of my upbringing, I was revolted at the thought that I was in love with a member of my own sex.’ Photograph: Alamy |
It has
taken Ireland decades of scandals involving priests and bishops to loosen the
grip of the Catholic church on its culture and laws.
But the
repressive days of the 1960s and 1970s were back on the front pages on Friday
after one of the country’s most high profile journalists came out at the age of
54.
Ursula
Halligan, political editor of commercial channel TV3, revealed she was resigned
to “going to my grave with this secret” until the upcoming referendum on
same-sex marriage forced her to confront the issue head on.
The TV3
political editor told of the pain and suffering she endured, when at 17 she
fell in love with another girl, knowing homosexuality was deemed “an evil
perversion”.
In a column
in the Irish Times, she told how heterosexuals take love and marriage for
granted.
“For me,
there was no first kiss; no engagement party; no wedding. And up until a short
time ago no hope of any of these things,” she wrote.
Her words
will resonate with everyone who grew up in 1970s Ireland – where the
orthodoxies of the Catholic church were so deeply engrained in the state that
contraception, divorce and abortion were all illegal. Homosexuality was not
decriminalised until 1993.
Ireland
will become the first country to hold a referendum on gay marriage on 22 May.
Halligan told
how she learned to “suppress everything” to the point where she became filled
with homophobic feelings for herself.
“In the
privacy of my head, I had become a roaring, self-loathing homophobe, resigned
to going to my grave with my shameful secret. And I might well have done that
if the referendum hadn’t come along,” she wrote.
“Because of
my upbringing, I was revolted at the thought that I was in love with a member
of my own sex.”
She told
how in recent months she had considering coming out and a few weeks ago found a
diary she had kept from 1977 talking of her feelings for her classmate.
“These past
few months must have been the darkest and gloomiest in my entire life,” she had
written.
“There have
been times when I have even thought about death, of escaping from this world,
of sleeping untouched by no one forever,” her diary said.
Halligan’s
article drew applause from many quarters and at one point was trending on
Twitter in the UK. Graham Norton tweeted: “A heartfelt heart breaking story -
How anyone could read it and still vote ‘no’ is beyond me.”
Halligan
said if her words help even one 17-year-old girl or boy to cope with any
anxiety they are feeling about their sexuality, “then I had to tell the truth”.
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